Making more money as a woman changes your friendships.
But it doesn’t have to be lonely at the top.
The Cashmere Club is a no-jealousy circle of business owners, consultants, founders, and CEOs where your biggest ideas, boldest plans, and best news finally get the reaction they deserve.
Membership is only $1895 per year or $575 per quarter.
The quiet cost of success
Somewhere along the way, you started editing yourself.
You used to share everything. Now you think twice before mentioning the vacation, the new contract or the number you hit last quarter, because you’ve learned how the room reacts. Some people go quiet, some get competitive, and someone always says, “Must be nice.” (It is.)
So you keep it to yourself. The ideas stay in your notes app, the dreams stay in your head, and the wins get celebrated alone, and in that quiet, the old voice gets louder and starts telling you you’re getting too big for your britches.
Why this matters
Success can isolate you, and isolation is expensive.
For most of human history, being cut off from your people was dangerous, and our bodies still react that way. That’s why the U.S. Surgeon General compared the health risk of lacking social connection to smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day. For high-earning women, success often moves you away from the group you came from, and there’s rarely a new group waiting.
Meet your people
in the Cashmere Club
Here’s what the right peers give you that you can’t get alone:
Protection
Our brains still run on ancient survival instincts, and for most of history, staying close to a strong, thriving group was how we stayed safe. Surrounding yourself with other successful women is still one of the smartest ways to protect yourself, both from people who pressure you to lend, rescue or invest in things you shouldn’t and from your own quiet doubts.
Access
Introductions, referrals and trusted names have always moved through networks. Women, and especially women of color, have been left out of the old ones, so we build our own.
Better decisions
Buying property, hiring, investing, planning a family or stepping back from work are expensive to get wrong, and easier to get right with a board of women who’ve done it.
Bigger ideas
When you spend time with women who think big, your own ideas get bigger, sharper and braver. One conversation can turn a half-formed idea into your next chapter.
Women have always gathered to share what they know, carry each other through hard seasons, and celebrate the good news. The Cashmere Club is where you get to do that again, with women who understand the life you’re building.
Inside the Club
Your peers, finally.
Our members are business owners, consultants, founders and CEOs with seven-figure net worths or well on their way.
They’re brilliant (a few hold PhDs), generous, and genuinely funny. Our conversations move easily from big ideas to the ups and downs of running a business, so on any given call you might find us talking through a launch, reviewing each other’s copy, or laughing at ourselves.
This is a no-jealousy zone. Your wins are celebrated here, never resented, and for most of our members, that alone is rare.
We’re growing businesses, raising families, navigating relationships, managing wealth and figuring out what they want from the next chapter.
This isn’t a coaching program, and nobody is going to turn your friendships into a productivity strategy.
You can celebrate a win without judgement, ask for advice on high stakes decisions, and talk about money, marriage, children, travel with other business owners who get it.
Why cashmere?
Real luxury lasts.
I bought my first cashmere sweater at J.Crew on a rainy day in 2007, right after the Bridge Street Town Center first opened, and I still have it.
That’s what I love about cashmere. It’s considered a luxury, but for what you get, it really isn’t that expensive. Keep it in the right environment, treat it well and handle it gently, and it will last you a decade or more. It keeps you warm in the winter and cool in the summer, and it simply works.
So much of what gets called luxury today is the opposite: logo bags made of plastic that cost a fortune and fall apart.
The Cashmere Club is named for the real thing. It’s friendship built to last, in an environment that takes care of you, with women who handle each other gently. (And no, we don’t spend our calls talking about sweaters.)
A month in the Club
Here’s what your calendar looks like as a member.
- Twice a month: a one-hour call where members bring the decisions they’re weighing, the wins they’re proud of and the questions they can’t ask anywhere else
- Every day: a private Telegram community for quick advice, good news, recommendations and the occasional hilarious story
- Every quarter: a training session and a book club discussion
- Once a year: an in-person meetup (an additional investment) where the women you’ve been talking to all year become the women you hug hello
Our calls are private and confidential. What’s shared in the Club stays in the Club, which is exactly why members feel free to share it.
“It’s one of the reasons I actually love this group a lot. It’s because my money BS in my head was very easily, quickly dispelled once I came into the group. And because I was ready to let it go, I just needed the confirmation, the validation from others that yes, you can let this go, right?”
— Member T.H.
What happens when you find your people?
The women on your screen become the women in your life.
You have women to call when you’re facing a big decision and women to celebrate with when something wonderful happens. You hear stories that stretch what you think is possible, and your questions are met with curiosity instead of assumptions.
Your friendships move off the screen, too, into city meetups, dinners, concerts, food tours and trips together. Over time, the women who started as names in a chat become women you know, trust, laugh with and can’t wait to see.
Every season spent around the wrong people costs you something
As humans, we are social creatures. But nobody talks about how success can quietly pull you away from your people. The friends you grew up with drift apart (or worse, start being jealous of you) and one day you realize there’s nobody to call who really gets your life.
The Cashmere Club gives you what you can’t get in a free Facebook group, a mastermind, or a room full of strangers:
- Access to introductions, referrals and trusted names, and to smart women with big ideas who make your life better. Women, and especially women of color, have been left out of these rooms for too long, so we built our own.
- Safety in a soft place to land, where nobody is jealous of you, asking you for money or trying to sell you something. Your nervous system can finally exhale.
- Counsel from your own personal board of directors, women who’ve already made the decisions you’re facing, so you never have to make the big ones alone.
Every member is personally vetted and every conversation is held with care, so you can earn trust fast.
There are often topics that I keep to myself because I don’t want to hear the thick judgment when people answer. The way I am affirmed in this space is magical. It’s where you want to be…better yet, it’s where you deserve to be!
— Member Natasha C.
Meet Nat
Hi, I’m Nat.
I created the Cashmere Club because I was tired of people dehumanizing me for being successful.
Wealth changes your life. But it also changes your friendships, your family dynamics, your dating life and your relationship with yourself. Most people don’t understand that. But I do.
Before I became a business coach, I was a financial advisor at a major bank, and I noticed that successful business owners and clients always had support. Once I started Unapologetic Wealth and had access to more money, people started acting funny.
I wanted a space where women like us could talk about all of it, without having to apologize for complaining about their house manager quitting or their launch bringing in so many people that now they’re stressed.
The Cashmere Club is where you can be fully yourself. If that sounds like what you’ve been craving, pull up a chair. We’ve been saving you a seat.
– Nat
Membership
Annual: $1,895
Save $405 compared with paying quarterly ($2,300/year).
Year-round access to:
- Twice-monthly calls
- The private community
- Quarterly training and book club
- Plus a cashmere welcome gift.
*The annual meetup is an additional investment.
Quarterly: $575 per quarter
Access to:
- Twice-monthly calls
- The private community
- Quarterly training and book club.
*The annual meetup is an additional investment.
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FAQs
Who is the Cashmere Club for?
Business owners, consultants, founders and CEOs earning at least $100,000, with seven-figure net worths or well on their way. Our members value curiosity, generosity, humor and real connection, and each of them brings something of her own to the table.
Is this a business mastermind?
No, it’s a community built for connection first. Our members have plenty of experience building businesses, so launches, copy reviews and the highs and lows of entrepreneurship come up all the time. We share ideas, offer advice, celebrate wins and help each other think through decisions, but friendship is the heart of it.
What if I'm introverted or new to making friends as an adult?
You’re very welcome here. Our twice-monthly calls and private community let you get to know people over time, at whatever pace feels comfortable. Friendships grow through repeated conversations and shared interests, and nobody expects you to be the life of the party on day one.
Is everything virtual?
The core membership is virtual, so women in different cities and time zones can take part. Members also plan in-person dinners, outings and trips, and we gather once a year for an in-person meetup, which is an additional investment.
How do I join?
We welcome a small number of women each quarter, by application or by referral from a current member. After you apply, we’ll get back to you within two business days, and if you’re approved, we’ll walk you through onboarding and help you get to know the community.
Your next chapter deserves a better audience
You’ve built something most people only dream about, and you deserve to enjoy it with women who are genuinely happy to see you win. Bring the ideas, the dreams and the wins, because this room has been waiting for them.
Not ready to apply yet? Start with the free Social Circle Audit and see who’s really in your corner.
